Who am I?
This blog post is fundamentally about me: about my beliefs, my likes, my dislikes, and other wonderful things you'll find interesting about me!
In the early days of my blog, I did write a bit about my political beliefs. However, it didn't tell my readers much about ME (Afterall, we live in a "me-me-me" world! Hehe!)! Hence this blog post.
Here you will find a number of relevant lists listing a number of interesting points, each revealing a different aspect of me. Some of the points have accompanying points immediately below them, some points contain links to other blog posts of mine on this blog, while others will have pictures next to them to help illustrate my point!
Hope you enjoy learning about me. And do come back to this page often, as I hope to enhance it regularly! ;-)
LISTS:
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ME; I AM
This is the "who and what" about me.
- I am a Croatian Serb;
- …I'm an ethnic Serb from Croatia!
- I also consider myself a British Serb,
- …because I live in Britain!
- Therefore, Croatian Serb + British Serb =
- British-Croatian Serb!
- And because I come from the mountainous region of Lika,
- …I consider myself a Ličanin!
- I believe that states, borders and central governments shouldn't exist;
- I believe that all humans should live in freedom, without unfair and unnecessary restriction, and certainly without imposition or coercion by others.
- I'm very left wing, open-minded and flexible in my opinions;
- I believe in the freedom of the individual to run his/her own life how he/she sees fit;
- and I'd rather there were no governments at all — except for say local councils genuinely run by the people in an Anarchic society, i.e. in free municipalities!
- I believe that everyone, regardless of gender, skin-colour, religious conviction, social background, physical ability or sexual orientation, is of equal value and worthy of life,
- and likewise, everyone has the right to live a decent life, and the right to access and enjoy the same opportunities this life has to offer.
- I believe in peace and I appreciate living my life in peace and security;
- I don't believe in armed conflict, i.e. war,
- and certainly do not agree with war being used to resolve national or international disputes.
- Honesty's the best policy!
- I am sensitive to other people's feelings;
- I am sympathetic;
- I have empathy;
- I'm compassionate;
- I'm an all-round caring person in my heart,
- …even if I don't do anything to show it!
- and I rarely drink.
- over-indulgence bothers me!
- I'm not highly confident,
- I'm quite modest and humble;
- and I don't boast that much about my virtues, except behind this computer screen and on this blog!!! :-D
- Moderate - even "light" - Anarchist;
- I don't believe in throwing Molotov cocktails at banking institutions, McDonald's restaurants and the like,
- and I don't advocate class war — even though I sympathise with the concept — as I'm a pacifist (as stated above).
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NOT ME; I'M NOT
These are all the things I'm not!
- I don't believe that human beings belong to separate "races"; all human beings, however they look like, belong to one single species. Genetics has proven so.
- I have nothing against foreigners in this country (the UK). I should know; I am one!
- Nationalism is based on illusions and delusions: illusions based on questionable interpretations of history; and delusions of grandure based on beliefs surrounding those interpretations of history.
- Nationalism often revolves around an irrational sense of justice, i.e. unrestrained vengeance, in regards to certain events in history.
- I don't agree with homophobic views, as I consider homosexuality to be a completely natural phenomenon;
- If so many creatures in the Animal Kingdom engage in some kind of homosexual antics, how then can homosexuality amongst humans be unnatural?
- I don't agree with extreme or irrational views on life, religion and politics;
- instead, I believe that moderation and rationality should influence one's views on life, religion and politics.
- I don't agree with repression or suppression of one's freedoms; I abhor it.
- I don't believe that order should be pursued at the expense of freedom,
- and I don't believe that the nation is above the individual.
- I don't agree with betraying your values for some short-term goal;
- I don't agree with selling your soul for thirty coins of silver!
- I'm not entirely sure that there is absolutely no God or God-like energy out there,
- and I deeply question whether there is no life after death; that after death there is absolutely nothing.
- Nevertheless, I have nothing against atheists, as my late father Stevo was one!
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BELIEVE
I truly or sort of believe in
- I believe that love is the most beautiful and amazing force and energy that we human beings can feel for ourselves, other humans, other living creatures and other things on Earth, and I believe that we should share as much of it around as possible!
- "I believe in a thing called love; Just listen to the rhythm of my heart!"
- COMPASSION
- I believe that we need to be more caring towards each other and also to ourselves, and also have more respect for everone and everything around us.
- I strongly believe that we shouldn't be judgmental towards other people and neither should we judge ourselves too harshly, even though we've probably all done the latter, not to mention the former!
- RECONCILIATION
- little by little though, especially with regards to the people of Bosnia and other war-affected regions of Yugoslavia, where I'm from.
- I truly think we should grateful for our lives, for the people who care about us, foremost our parents -
- But not everyone is as lucky as I am!
- I believe we should present ourselves and behave in a gentle manner towards other people (see COMPASSION above);
- I don't believe in behaving arrogantly and with no respect to other people.
- Do unto others, how you would want done unto you!
- SILVER RULE
- Do not do unto others, how you would not want done unto you!
- I like to think there is a life-giving force in this universe, particularly present on this planet of ours.
- I like to believe we all have souls, including animals.
- However, as far as I'm aware, there is no concrete evidence for its existence.
- I think this point ties in with the point regarding "Pantheistic God" and the other regarding "Soul/Spirit", and it could also refer to what many call "Chi".
- I like to think there could be a number heavenly bodies in the universe to which our souls might travel to after this life,
- assuming something within us really does travel to some place outside this planet.
- "What goes around, goes around, goes around; Comes all the way back around! Yeah!"
- I like the idea that our souls may have lived through many lifetimes before this one.
- Nevertheless, there is still no evidence that proves this really happens.
- I believe there is both physical and spiritual/intellectual evolution that affects us human beings and other creatures in this world.
- I believe that each person's life is a story of evolution; a process of development and discovery, and of self-development and self-discovery.
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SUPPORT
I am 100% or some percentage behind:
- the political philosophy that advocates a world without states, imposed by governments and enforced along borders, as the ideal society.
- A possible alternative to the nation state could be "free municipalities", inhabited by free and equal individuals who practice "direct/participatory democracy".
- Freedom of Speach;
- Freedom of Choice.
- Civil Rights and Social Justice.
- Equal right to life, equal before the law and equal opportunities to all people;
- There should be no discrimination on the basis of gender, skin-colour, religious conviction, social background, physical ability or sexual orientation.
- Representing workers' rights to a decent wage and living, as opposed to letting the corporate capitalists, i.e. the minority, get their selfish and greedy ways at the expense of the majority.
- Offering a co-operative and mutually-benificial alternative to the despotic and parasitic nature of Capitalism.
- I believe we should treat the earth we live on with care,
- …and that we shouldn't deplete the world of its natural resources.
- I believe we should be living in close-knit communities, in which we know everybody. But also,
- Individuality:
- I believe that the individual should have control over his/her own life, choosing how he/she wishes to live it.
- Between various social groups, including different religious communities, ethnic groups, tribes and nations worldwide, in order to find common ground and arrive at mutually-beneficial solutions.
- Serbia becoming a better country for all her people,
- Croatia becoming a better country for all her people;
- Particularly for my people, but equally for all other ethnic groups, including Croats,
- Bosnia and all countries in the Balkans improving in the spheres of economics AND society.
- Individualising guilt over war crimes committed in the Former Yugoslavia.
- including the return of all property to their pre-war owners who either fled from their hometowns and villages or were expelled thence,
- Except if they choose to renounce it (I don't encourage or recommend that).
- Restore respect and trust between communities;
- Encourage cooperation between communities.
- Helping people who are in political/economic/health crises.
- "SERBO-CROAT" as a neutral and international name for our common language —
- However, I also support the right of all the above-named peoples to call their language whatever they want to call it. I'm a pluralist about these things, you know!
- Preferably, I wish that the people of Bosnia — and the rest of the Balkans — could live in complete freedom without any central governments and politicians interfering in their lives. I am an Anarchist, afterall!
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OPPOSE
I am totally or somehow against:
- Religious intolerance;
- Islamic and Christian extremism/militancy alike.
- Tyrrany/oppressive rule brings naught but misery.
- An eye for an eye and the whole world goes blind!
- I value human life too highly, even if many other individuals out there don't.
- Croatian Nationalism, Serbian Nationalism. (I think Serbian and Croatian nationalists should be friends. Yeah, seriously! They shouldn't be hurling abuse at one another; they should be laughing and joking together instead!)
- Expansionistic Irredentism:
- Greater Serbia,
- Greater Croatia,
- Greater Albania,
- and all other "Greater" countries that disrespect the human rights and wishes of other religious and/or ethnic groups.
- Expelling populations from certain areas/regions just because they belong to different cultural and/or religious groups.
- There's no point in doing that: it won't make the accused open up or confess, because that will only allow them to hide behind the nation being accused, and thus enjoy protection;
- And it won't make the accusers feel any better: all they will be doing is nursing their sense of victimhood by voicing their hatred and desire for revenge, but that will not bring them any justice either.
- Pseudo-historic national narratives based on tendentious and questionable interpretations of history, with a tendency to emphasise the favourable aspects of history and a corresponding tendency to either overlook - or just minimise the importance of - those unfavourable aspects of history.
- The problem is, however, such views of history, however inaccuate or flawed, form the basis of people's national identity! And not only that, they can also cause argument after argument, followed by numerous polemics, and then they fuel further disputes and controversy among different nations!
- An unjust economic formula by which one state invades and establishes its rule over another people's homeland for that state's financial gain.
- It is also immoral because it leads to officials and even ordinary people living in such imperial states to develop a sense of supremacy over the conquered peoples of their state's empire.
- Class systems, as depicted by the picture on the left, inherently embody, regularly fuel and constantly breed inequality and injustice.
- I believe they are fundamentally undemocratic and in the words of the French Anarchist Pierre-Joseph Proudhon, "…repugnant to a free, democratic society".
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LIKE
This is what I like:
- Feeling good,
- I like to feel good about myself!
- Relaxing,
- I don't like to pressure myself too much, but if it comes to it, then I like to alleviate myself from the stress caused as soon as possible!
- Good food
- I have a great appreciation for food, i.e. I have a very good appetite!
- I aim to strike a balance in my life, but it can be hard!
- I'm not keen on excessiveness.
- Treating certain things sensitively;
- Showing other people you care.
- Intelligence.
- However, I am not a vegetarian - well, not for now, at least!
- I'm interested in who my ancestors were, and would like to trace my ancestry as far back as possible!
- Gračac, a small town and its surrounding villages in southern Lika, where my parents came from;
- The village of Štikada just outside Gračac, particularly the hamlet of Podkosa, where my mother was born.
- Minority languages or languages with fewer speakers, like Welsh or Quechua for instance!
- Also languages that aren't minority languages or have many speakers like English and Chinese!
- Dialectual variety in a language;
- Constructed languages!
- Popular,
- Dance/Trance,
- Folk,
- I love traditional songs from Serbia, Bosnia, Montenegro, Macedonia and even Bulgaria.
- I like a mixture of Pop and Folk music, and…
- …TURBO-FOLK! NARODNJACI!
- (I LOVE that ORIENTAL sound; I actually LIKE that mix of Turkish, Gipsy, Serbian and even Greek music!!!)
- Oh, and Bulgarian CHALGA!
- Singing songs,
- My ones and other people's songs!
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DISLIKE
What I don't like:
- and Cynicism — which is different, of course.
- Over-indulgence.
- Hypocrisy
- Sore throat, and
- bad smell from the throat!
- Incessant dry, tickly coughs,
- followed by chesty coughs!
- Blocked nose, then runny nose,
- and nose bleeding as a result of blowing your nose too much!
- and scraping the skin underneath my fingernails, as I try to take something out of tight trouser pockets!
- Thus, having to rely on those tight trouser pockets instead! Ouch!
- the negative effects it has on families, especially children of divorcing parents;
- how it generally undermines both the institution of marriage and family after the official separation.
- Insuring that the gap between rich and poor continues to widen.
- Extremism in other aspects of life.
- Serbs, Croats, Bosniaks and others all claiming to be victims of other nations, but never admitting/acknowledging/genuinely renouncing any wrong-doing from their own side:
- And how can people from any Balkan nation think that their nation is made up purely of innocent victims? Every family, clan, tribe, community and nation on earth has arseholes, c*nts and other obnoxious folk who wouldn't think twice about hurting their fellow man if it suited them!
- Not fond of fellow Serbs who hate other people either.
- Serbian nationalists encouraging hatred or distrust of other Balkan nations.
- What a load of b*ll*cks!
- Fortunately, it looks like they're becoming ever-more marginalised!
- Come on, it's ENTERTAINING to watch and listen to!
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12 comments:
Nothing to say now maby later.
Nice you share many of mine thougs and intereses, but there are some points where we do not agree.
Any way here is my e-mail address if you need help with enuthing anything.
sima721990@zahoo.com
Sta znas mozda ti i zatreba pomoc nekad.
greska
sima721990@yahoo.com
Sve je super, ali sta ce ti ovoliki narodnjaci?
Jer mi daju inspiraciju! :-D
Alan.
Very interesting blog, alan!
i really like your opinions and that you share so openly. i am running a blog for a bunch of "johnny come lately" serb-americans who suddenly decided to protest the kosovo independence thing. i collect interesting stuff and post for them; but they are so stupid they don't even read what i post. [i copied your post into my blog because i thought it was so good] so i am really only doing for myself now. their interest in the protest ran out the day after they did it. i think i'm starting to sound negative. something you do not like. so i had better stop while i am ahead. btw: i am an american/protestant married to a serb from paracin. my son is 1/2 serb-1/2 american. and his opinions would run very closely with yours--he's 25 years old. i'm an oldie. but i like to think i am young in my thoughts. best wishes to you, and keep writing!
Hi Alan. As you are an anarchist, the Anarchist Federation in Britain has written a few things that you might be interested to read:
http://www.afed.org.uk/org/issue52/kosovo.html
All the best for 2009.
Nice list - looks like you're all things to all people, so good luck keeping all those balls in the air. :-)
Nice list - looks like you're all things to all people, so good luck keeping all those balls in the air. :-)
Hi Marie, thanks for the comments and feel free to comment elsewhere! I saw your comment under my other blog post (about being a British Serb), and I've bookmarked the link you provided. And thanks for adding my blog to your Google reader! Pozdrav!
Hi Alan, I read your article 'I am a Croatian Serb' in Britic (via email subscription) with great interest. I will stay tuned to your blog - it's great. I really admire your beliefs and ideals. There's much food for thought.
Best wishes from Vesna
Thank you Vesna and I'm glad you enjoyed my article on Britić (I've published a few others there). Feel free to leave a comment wherever you like on this blog!
Pozdrav!
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